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Have a shabby chic high tea around 16:00 in the afternoon - this means the wedding ceremony should start around 14:30. A high tea is a classy combination between tea and supper. Think country garden, silver crockery, cake stands, proper cloth napkins, petit fours, scones and cream, tea sandwiches and you're on the right track. Quite an elegant affair and perfect for a small wedding.

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Country Garden High Tea

Have a Shabby Chic High Tea around 16:00 in the afternoon - this means the wedding ceremony should start around 14:30. A high tea is a classy combination between tea and supper. Think country garden, silver crockery, cake stands, proper cloth napkins, petit fours, scones and cream, tea sandwiches and you're on the right track. Quite an elegant affair and perfect for a small wedding.
 
Botswana Wedding on elephant back

Now, this is my kinda thing - pity I'm married already! Think Botswana, bush, lanterns, romance, an African sunset and a big open sky, sundowners and a luxury honeymoon suite somewhere in the tree tops. Pure indulgence! With a handful of guests that pay for their own accommodation you can easily pull this off! Arrive at the ceremony together on elephant back (just make sure you leave a few hours before the due time!).
 
Hot air balloon ride

For something different work a hot air balloon ride into your wedding plan. The ceremony itself won't take place in the balloon, but you can kick off the celebrations in a spectacular, romantic way by sharing a glass of bubbly on the balloon. Alternatively you can use this unique method of transport to arrive at your reception in style.
 

Surprise your guests

Get your friends and close family members to prepare for a weekend away without telling them about your plans to tie the knot - as a clue you can mention something like a mystery weekend of fun and games and that they should bring fancy clothes to play the part - this should get them all excited and in the mood for festivities without having a clue of what's to come. Let a few key people in on the Plan so that they can help with the wedding arrangements (would be a good idea to prepare the parents of both families for this event - you don't want to end up with disgruntled family members while you're supposed to be celebrating - it's a respect thing). This should turn out to be a weekend of fun, excitement, laughter and yes.. tears!

 

Laid back picnic

This is perfect for a small, cozy wedding - besides the fact that there is not much fuss, stress or too much planning involved in a picnic wedding, the scenery will make for absolutely beautiful photos. You can either get a wedding planner to glue all the details together or you can do it yourself - there are quite a few venues that cater for picnic celebrations - they usually supply delicious picnic baskets for adults as well as healthy, interesting ones for children. You can always add an extra toy or colouring book and crayons to the kiddie's basket to keep them busy while the adults kick off their shoes and sip on some bubbly while taking in the view!

 

Themed Weddings

If you want to spice up your wedding, a great way to go about it is to have your guests and yourselves dress up! Most people still enjoy dressing up, those that are still young at heart at least! There are quite a few venues that offer this, for example you can have your guests dress up in medieval outfits (usually for hire at the venue), the bride and groom can play the part of the king and queen and you make up your own rules as you go along. These kind of themed parties are usually a lot of fun as they have a set program that includes entertainment for the evening. The menu (as well as the lack of utensils) and games make for an interesting night!

 

Roaring Forties Floating Restaurant

For something completely different, celebrate this special day aboard the beautiful Museum Ship, CS Cable Restorer, which houses the unique Roaring Forties Floating Functions Restaurant and Conference Venue, permanently docked in historic, picturesque Simons Town. Their décor is nautical but elegant, with navy blue table cloths and Long Island striped overlays. They also hire out our white linen and chair covers for functions but for weddings they are already included in the venue hire. They have a beautiful outside deck adjoining the functions/ conferencing area. This area is lovely for pre-dinner / arrival drinks as well as being a great spot to take photographs with Simons Town as your backdrop.

 
Breakfast Wedding on a Mountain Top

This wedding would be organised by a Mountain holiday resort and would suit a small intimate wedding. Have your guests arrive at the resort for breakfast and surprise them by transferring them to the top of the mountain escarpment, via helicopter where a beautiful table has been set for breakfast. The bridal party would arrive last and get married "on top of the world". Not all mountain resorts offer helicopter transfers but you may be able to organise some 4x4 and transfer guests to a remote hillside ie. not as high as a helicopter would take you but still far enough away to feel like you are 'away from it all".
 
Intimate Wedding at a Game Park

Guests arrive at the main lodge and are transferred in a game vehicle to a remote "bush destination" for a beautiful lunch or dinner under a huge tree or in a boma. The bridal couple would arrive once everyone is seated and the wedding ceremony could proceed immediately. The bushveld make for beautiful wedding photographs, so guests could be driven to another location for sundowners whilst the bridal party goes for pictures.
 
Forest Dinner

Imagine an elegant dinner table set up in the middle of a forest, lit with candles and fairy lights. How Romantic! You would have to talk to various country venues that are on forest land if they would be prepared to do something like this.
 
Weekend Away Wedding

Invite your closest friends and family for a "special weekend" away - do not let people know that it is your wedding, all you have to tell them is that it's a "special weekend away - not to be missed". You can really get creative and create the suspense. Prepare a beautiful dinner and have a marriage officer meet you wherever you are staying, holiday house or cottage and let him announce in front of everyone that he has come to marry Janine and Barry for example. This would be spontaneous and relaxed yet very special. You can get your friends to take photos so that you still have beautiful memories of your wedding.
 
Adventure Race Wedding

For the adventurous at heart! This will take some imagination and organisation on your side but will no doubt add huge entertainment for your guests! The final destination would be to find you two - the bridal couple. You could have a picnic set up under a beautiful tree or even next to a river - anywhere your heart desires! You would be able to say hello and congratulate each guest as they arrived. You could then proceed with the ceremony and follow that with speeches and prize giving for the adventure race!
 

Train Ride Wedding

The journey starts off with a train ride to an unspecified destination. The bride and groom have champagne with their guests and enjoy the train ride. The train then stops at a scenic destination and guests enjoy a picnic and afternoon sundowners and the wedding ceremony before heading back home on the train. Short, simple, different and sweet!

 

   
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